With my Asian female friends, they'll almost always tell me that they "love" me, they're just not "in love" with me. Like with me Filipino female friends, all they have to do is call me "kuya", and I know that there's not a snowball's chance in hell that I'm gonna get some from them. The word "kuya" basically means big brother, so once they've called you that, you can forget about it.
Sometimes, if I know a Filipino guy friend of mine likes a non-Filipino girl, I'll be a jackass and secretly get the girl to call him "kuya". I know, I know, I'm being a major prick by doing this, considering what I just said. No need to remind me.