Copy/pasting what I out in the other thread:
If memory serves me right, his dad had also passed away from cancer, meaning that Matthew knew he had a chance of getting it himself. When it happened, he faced it and dealt with what he had to do with the dignity and bravery.
Over the years here, Matthew and I shared numerous convos about idol fandom, forum happenings and just random stuff, sometimes publicly and sometimes via PMs. He actually even offered to help me this one particular time when I wanted to buy a new tablet that was on sale but that wouldn't ship to Canada (basically I bought it, shipped it to him in Hawaii, then he took it and sent it to me). I remember it took me a while to get him to let me pay him back for the shipping costs, as he initially kept saying it was no big deal.
The only chance I had to meet him in person was when MM visited NYC. In person he was just as genuine and just as much of a nice guy as he was online.
Mahalo for everything my friend. Be at peace, and rest in power.
Also, fuck cancer