Not too long ago, I needed some career advice and a close friend of mine gave me the number of one of her friends. We chatted on the phone a bit, she gave me some really good advice, and we both seemed to hit it off. Some time later, she was in town and we met and had dinner. It turns out that she looks just like Miki Fujimoto. A slightly older Hong Kong/Canadian version of Mikitty. She was kind, funny, confident, outgoing... but I couldn't stop thinking about Miki. We met a few more times after that. Our common friend knows that I like her and is cheering both of us on. I have a very very strong feeling that she likes me as well. I have a feeling that if I made a move, I could be getting into something very serious.
But here's the thing: in my head, I can't really seperate her from Miki. I'm afraid that if I make a move, I'm doing so because the subconcious part of me has a delusional desire to be with Miki. I definitely will not fuck her over or get into a short term relationship. If I move forward with this relationship, I won't be able to back down easily. Because I'm not that sort of guy. And because we have a close friend in common, and that would really be awkward. But I'm afraid that I'm fundamentally attracted to her not because of who she is, but because of who she looks like.
Should I throw caution to the wind and tell her how I'm nuts about her? If so, should I even mention anything about how she looks like an idol I'm nuts about? Or should I just let go and resign myself to the fact that I don't want to get into a relationship that I'm not absolutely sure I'm serious about?
Help me out, guys and gals, I need some relationship advice! What would you do if you were in my shoes? What would do if it was one of your favorite MoMusu members?