Good points everynyan, really enjoy reading your input >_< I think I needed to bring up the topic so that I could move on from it tbh, it's bad to bottle things up
Even silly little things like couple rings...
ionno, i agree with what everyone is saying up there but imo im going to keep it simple. Not gonna think about it as it only came from one person and all, so i'll think into the matter when it has truly been confirmed. I mean why over work yourself over something that might not even be true and when u find out that it isn't then you think back and work yourself over it about how dumb you were and how u wasted so much time and effort raging over a small rumour. Not worth it guys, just keep doing what a fan needs to do and just keep supporting them.
It's definitely ok to just keep it simple, but there are also fans who like to question things, analyze things and be challenged. Like here, deep down it's not really about whether Jiyeon is dating or not, but about what a couple ring signifies (some awesome points here made above about how idols date, their possible warped ideas of love etc.) and what it can mean to a fan when it appears that their Dream Girl is officially taken
Conversations like this would be completely missed out on if everyone just kept posting news and talking about how AWESOME everything is. So, if you just want to support the girls and that's it, that is absolutely great, but nobody should be criticized for wanting to discuss something that they find problematic. Because thinking about these things and discussing them results in Progress (TM)! To me, it's absolutely worth the effort to know more about T-ara, Kpop, and myself as a result. And it definitely doesn't mean that we'll stop supporting T-ara... If anything, a few bumps along the way can make the bond even stronger >_<
I'm already much less bothered by the 'stupid couple ring' than I was yesterday
All I can do is thank y'all for not instantly shooting me down for having a little rant about it. Ah, I do wish the best for Jiyeon and she is a precious girl.
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@ the Dani sexy thing: I do often get the feeling that the word itself has a much wider/fluffier meaning in Korea (and Japan) than in English speaking countries. I doubt Soyeon was thinking along the lines of "you should find her sexually desirable" but more like "she's tall and skinny just like the Korean ideals so she is obviously attractive" ... ... OR SOMETHING ROFL. But yeah it does have a bad ring to my ear because when I'm thinking of the word 'sexy' I'm thinking of... well, horny stuff...