Clearly, Aya was/is on a self-destruct program, whether on purpose or not, hard to tell.
She is talented, deserves to be working, but lots of fan rules were broken.
Are those rules fair- no!! But they exist, and there are a lot of talents who play by the rules, or if they break the rules they don't go television shows to talk about their indiscretions.
There may be issues of mental instability here, in other words she may be fighting all kinds of work and personal pressures that fans no nothing about.
Hopefully, she does have family and/or real friends that she can rely on, and she can move down a more happy path in the future, whether it includes a place in the entertainment industry or not.