I wish shirenu didn't decide to delete all our posts, I have to re-write it now.
Basically, like you said, it is just a game, and if your girl gets booted, it doesn't mean anything but the fact she isn't getting to the final.
If you find the game fustrating, that's your choice, I'm struggling with Chinami, and when she goes, I'll just smile at the fact I tried.
Anyway Gaki fans, there is another game coming after the B&I, much more fair, much more fun, a little less annoying

Hope to see you there instead.